19 January 2015
2015 reboot
09 January 2010
Hotel Edison
I Quickly replied, "Were waiting for someone."
He barked back, "Which guest are you waiting for?"
I was a deer caught in headlights. I'm sure I even looked panicked, mouth agape, eyes stunned.
Dad quickly replied, "Morty Feinstein. We're calling him now."
That seemed to quite the guy for a bit although I heard him tell a co-worker, who questioned what we were doing sitting on their cheap couch, "There waiting for someone." So I guess Dad's power of telling a quick lie isn't passed down genetically.
Scarlatto

We arrived and were seated next to a large circular party of about ten. I really should have asked for a different table. As the evening progressed, and the nearby group polished of several bottles of wine, the noise level grew to such excruciating levels that my dad's voice grew hoarse just yelling to be heard over the cacophony. Sorry, Dad.
The food was good, though. The beet salad comes beautifully presented with thin slices fanned out and accompanies with the perfect amount of goat cheese. My veal cannelloni were delicious - nice, thin, al dente pasta tubes with good, flavorful filling and just the right sauce and cheese mix. Dad tried the ossobuco which looked good. The pear dessert looked better than it tasted.
Good food but sooooo not a place to go pre-theater given the crazy-loud atmosphere. Don't take seniors here, either. The bathrooms are down an awkward flight of stairs. Plus teh service was marginal and indifferent. Dad tipped the coat/hostess gal $10 yet she didn't even help Therese or me put out coats on, instead just handing the lump or winter-wear into my bumbling arms. Really not a good move, but then she'd already pocketed her Hamilton.
Onto the show.
Le Pain Quotidien
Starting the morning off is important for my dad. Left to my own devices, I would sleep in until noon. But I must admit it is nice to enjoy the city before others awake and start making it more frenetic. For a brief moment, the light is filtered through low eastern angles, the air seems a little cleaner, the streets a lot emptier, and we have the whole back area of Quotidien on W 72nd to ourselves.
We always get the bread selection. NYC is blessed with great bread. Perhaps it's all in the water. We have the best water, still not chlorinated, but that soon will change. Lets hope we learn to protect our watershed instead of fracking and pollution the crap out of it for short-term profits. But right now we have the best drinking water I've ever used. The jams are great; my fav is the apricot with huge chucks of half-apricots throughout.
I had a warming cappuccino and a soft-boiled egg, which reminds me of my youth. Mom used to put the egg into these cute cup holders; the one I remember vividly was this sort of elf and she'd put a little cap on the egg for the hat. Who does that anymore? So some of that nostalgia floods back as I use my spoon to tap, tap, tap the top of the shell, making tiny cracks allowing me to peel it away. The spoon feels a tug of resistance on the egg white covering. Once through, it's golden delight reaching the yolky center. I try my best to scoop and mix all the contents to even out yolk-to-white spoonfuls.
There's an art to eating a soft-boiled egg. It comes back so easily. But it helps to enjoy it with family, on a nice cold winter morning in New York, in a nice, quite spot, before the world is fully awake.
27 September 2009
Salingers Orchard

20 July 2009
Molly Peffers

27 January 2009
Pain in the A**

03 January 2009
Winter Lights

09 October 2008
Dad and Uncle get musical?
07 October 2008
Life at the Dallas Arboretum
08 March 2008
Nice Matin and family affairs
Therese is Dad's cousin on his mother's side
and her sister, Barbara, is suffering. She needs to be in a home now and this has left the family house in a rather sad state. They have to dig out from a lot of clutter. I wish I could do more. Therese is heading up to Ossining to help out. Luckily my Aunt Evelyne is there to help out.
Strange how Dad never really talked much about family when I was growing up - no pictures hanging around, not even any heirlooms except an old watch of his father's he had in his office desk drawer. Now he seems to enjoy returning to his roots, talking with his cousin, driving past the old chestnut tree in front of his grandparent's house. Some memories aren't happy ones - how he got the news of his mother's death - but slowly I'm learning more about how my dad grew up ... and how he seems to be more and more comfortable revisiting home.
16 February 2008
Old Jokes and Getting Older
After work, my dad met me at the office. I found him chatting up some of the office staff. We met up with C, M and Z and headed out to dinner at a lovely place with a rather strange waitress. Once Dad found a receptive audience for his jokes and banter in Z it was hard for the waitress to find a pause to ask for our order. We had a great meal but I felt I should pay a minimum cover charge. Seriously, it was really nice to see him so animated and Z was such an attentive, conversant subject for his show. And in a very honored move, C felt comfortable enough with me to have me take her to the girl's room where she felt comfortable enough with me to leave behind about a quarter of her body weight for the wastewater gods. It was taking so long, understandable given her pint-sized shape, that M came to check on us ... we were just fine - just marking the territory :) Dad was also a C favorite thanks to a few presents and, more importantly, his removable thumb trick. She'd ask for "Mr. Pepperoni" to show her again and again. She was a great audience.
28 January 2008
Ah, relief
Struggled through the work morning. Had to take a little private time to try relaxing on my office floor after some woozy feeling post drug dose for the day. Oh, and long hair - not so fun combing out bed-head. On the way out of work, Ramon talked me into stopping by the Transportation Alternatives UWS meeting with reception. Loved the concepts for the traffic calming in my neighborhood. The men situation was slim. And the one cute guy I got to talk to was married, which is funny since he looked like he was in his early twenties. Walked home and found Manuel at the door and he had cough drops for me. Ah, this is the life. My little co-op family taking care of me :)
11 November 2007
Heading North
... fall finally arrives in November!
Well, it took awhile but we finally have fall color. After the warmest October on record (actually, I think it is a tie with 1947), we finally got some cooler weather. I headed up the Hudson line, past the very scenic Palisade and gorgeous clumps of fall foliage on the West side of the river and arrived in Ossining, New York around 11:30 am. Aunt Evelyn picked me up and we headed up to Bear Mountain State Park. The color was lovely but the winds were a bit chilly. We did a bit of walking around the main lodge and park, watched kids enjoy a ride on the indoor carousel, a few folks skating, and Evelyn tried to find the remnants of the ski jump but only the stairs and railing remain, the jump and clearing now covered thickly with trees. Perkins Tower was closed due to snow and ice. We drove into Harriman Park along Seven Lakes Drive and ran into a snowman, a red tailed hawk and several deer. Beautiful day! So nice to get out of the city for a change.
22 July 2007
Brewster
I headed up to Brewster with my parents Sunday morning to see relatives. We were off to meet Mark, David and David's mom Janet. My parents hadn't seen Janet yet and it was a nice to drive up. We spent some time at their home, which was lovely and happily situated on a large lot with rolling green lawns and trees. Both David and Janet looked great since I saw them last, losing significant weight with exercise and good eating habits. We headed just right around the corner to a nice home turned into a country restaurant, The Arch. We had a leisurely meal starting with a creamy cauliflower soup with apple garnish. I had the beef stroganoff while others leaned to seafood selections. Mark enjoyed his salmon in orange sauce. Mom and Janet had crab and lobster cakes while David and Dad had scallops. The real gem of the meal was their soufflés. Mom and I had the coconut while David and Janet had the raspberry. We all loved them, airy yet flavorful with added cream to savor the pockets of baked light egg flavor. Yum. It was great seeing the family and connecting after all these years.
Ossining
Mom and Dad grew up in Ossining so they spent the weekend in there old stomping grounds. We met up with my Aunt Evelyne and my dad's cousin Barbara for brunch at Guida's in the old town center. It didn't open until 12:30 so we took a walk on the Croton aqueduct bridge. The dining room was lovely. I had the tortellini pasta with prosciutto, peas and tomato cream sauce. Not very good given the past was suppose to be fresh. The peas were hard and the prosciutto chewy and grisly in places. I think everyone else enjoyed their meals. We took a drive after our meal all around the Croton reservoir. There are some beautiful spots and the rain we've had has really kept all the hillsides lush and green with thick tree cover. Hopefully this will yield a lovely fall. For dinner we dropped off Barbara (long day for her) and met up with my cousin, Mark. We headed to Goldfish for a nice dinner. We sat upstairs at this local establishment that used to be a pub in my father's father's day, then a pub-like restaurant, even a gay bar before becoming this light and airy seafood place. I was still a bit full from lunch so I ordered a selection of oysters and the shrimp tempura appetizer. Mom had some HUGE scallops. Everyone enjoyed their meals and the staff was wonderfully attentive with everyone helping out even with a very large party being served nearby. A wonderful little find in the sleepy side streets of Ossining. It was a great day for family and reminiscing about the old days.
15 July 2007
The Big 40!

A good friend of mine, Gwen, has a birthday just one day after mine. Since we're both single gals living in the City, we decided to throw ourselves our own 40th birthday party! This was such a great idea. We had a great time finding the perfect place - Le Colonial. We rented out the top lounge and had yummy eats: Cha Gio (spring rolls), Goi Cuon (soft shrimp rolls), Bo Lui (beef brochette), Ga Goi Filo (curry chicken in phyllo), and Ca Um (smoked salmon on wonton cracker with wasabi, cucumber and dill). My favorite was the Ca Um. And I had many a lychee and passion martini - both fabulous. The bartenders and wait staff were amazing - no shortage of food or drink. And they even made sure to deliver some vegetarian rolls to my veggie friends. And instead of a cake we served some of our favorite cupcakes from TriBeca Treats. My parents came in from San Antonio, my brother and sister-in-law from Virginia, my two sisters and one brother-in-law from North Carolina, and relatives from Ossining and Long Island, New York. I also had friends some in from Washington State and nearby friends from work and such. It was so great having everyone there. What a great way to spend my birthday!
Before my birthday at Le Colonial, I had family stop by my tiny studio on the Upper West Side. Given that my apartment was: 1) hot, 2) small, and 3) ruled by my 6 lb. cat, we headed to the roof. I have a lovely co-op who cares enough to have a terraced garden roof space with lounge chairs, tables and chairs. The views are amazing but the sun can be rather hot. Everyone was a good sport about the umbrellas that didn't work. We shared some champagne and fizzy water before I had to head out to prep for the party.
19 April 2007
Niece and Nephew Time
What can I say? Being an Aunt is the best.
Jane is still a lover bug. She loves Tickle Monster and walking. We found some caterpillars the other day and put them in a jar to see if they'll form a chrysalis. She was very good at handling them and letting them crawl on her hands, not forcefully picking them up. She's very gentle and caring. She names one Sally and I think the other is Catie. She also loves her Jelly Cats and playing on the playground.
17 April 2007
'Mom hair' crisis
for posting this
My younger sister recently had her third child. She's looking great and doing a great job juggling the demands of piano lessons, preschool, and breastfeeding. She was getting a bit tired of all the time it took to manage her longer hair - and all the mess that it creates, less than a St. Bernard sheds but more than a short-haired chihuahua. She looks great with a short hairdo so in her postpartum mother moment, she went in for the cheap-o $18 cut and ended up with a floppy Monkey's mop reminiscent of 1960s "I'm high but I'd really love to cut your hair" results. My older sister took one look at it and said, 'What did you do to your hair? You look like Mom." Now for any woman, no matter what age, particularly after just having a baby, it is not flattering to be compared to your mother unless she's Lauren Bacall or Sofia Loren. Marla quickly placed a call for the emergency what-the-hell-did-I-do $80 haircut at the best salon.
Now I've done the same thing once in Seattle when going short. The first cut started just fine but at the last minute I ended up with bangs! Now if you've seen my eyebrows - think Groucho Marx on a girl - you know my forehead does not need another line of interest hovering above my eyes. I looked like some friar monk without the bald spot. Heck, a bald patch might have made me look at least edgy. The next day I shelled out around $100 for the help-fix-it-do and ended up very happy. I had a fun Mia Farrow meets Oscar version of Haley Berry. Why do we take out hair so seriously? That is a topic for some serious PhD psychology dissertation.
So Marla let me get my eyebrows waxed and tamed so I don't look like the old men in the Muppets balcony. Then I swapped kid-watching duties so she could go get some pampering. We headed to KFC for some popcorn chicken, big treat for the kids. Marla headed into the care of a very metro and super-skinny Asian hairdresser named Ase or Agee or some other variation of a name with too many vowel sounds and no indication of how to accent the spelling. Aseh/Ageh had his own funky haircut - a version of a top knot with undercut urban shaved section towards the nap of his neck. This should be interesting. So I return with the kids just as Marla is heading out of the salon. Kid you not, she looked like a stylish mom from the neck down, with her white laced top and Capri black pants - all set for the country club or a suburban book club night. Scanning up to her face, I could not stop laughing. She was punk queen! She'd gone from our mother to a groupie for the Sex Pistols! She had such a good sense of humor about the whole thing. "Why do I let people do this to me? I just sit there and say, 'Thank you, looks great!' when I'm close to pulling a Britney Spears and getting it all shaved off." So we drove her spiky head home to wash out the goop they put in it to defy gravity. I knew the cut was great; she just needed less product and more natural styling to make her look great. So post-gunkifying her hair, she looks fabu. She gets a little frustrated at a few rouge hairs that like to pop up and stand up straight but these are not noticeable and the cut will grow out nicely. So all's well that ends well. And just remember, don't go for that $18 cut - and don't pull a Britney. It'll all work out in the end.
16 April 2007
Jean Day4

Well, it seemed like the rain subsided by morning but alas, we trekked all the way to JFK for nothing. We had to take an expensive cab ride because the E subway was flooded. We checked Jean's bag, went through security only to have the flight listed as 'canceled'. Argh! The lines at customer service were insanely long. A gate employee told me I'd need to go to baggage service to reclaim Jean's bag. Margs helped via phone by calling customer service to try to find another flight for us. The woman could rebook me but not Jean for fear her bag would get put in 'unclaimed' status. Thus I worked with Mary at JFK but she said she couldn't do anything with the bag and that customer service was wrong. She then sent me to Allison up at ticketing. Allison tried to rebook us but was unable to get Jean back her bag - held hostage until the next RDU flight would leave. We took the AirTrain and subway home and were back in my neighborhood at 1:30 pm - a hellish three and a half hours.

